tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1776768376583820519.post5074656549330128300..comments2023-09-05T05:40:14.634-07:00Comments on a blog about miscarriage: It's not jealousy.Mandi Richardshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14641577291206420549noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1776768376583820519.post-37261334156626138032017-11-05T22:30:35.512-08:002017-11-05T22:30:35.512-08:00I lost my first pregnancy just a week after findin...I lost my first pregnancy just a week after finding out, its now been 2 months and we are trying again, but i still can't get over the last one 'oh we would have been 12 weeks today we would have been telling people about you' just milestones of pregnancy i will never get to have :( and my brother & his partner just recently had a baby they didnt want, and she did drugs the whole time and here i am unable to carry :( Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1776768376583820519.post-56848325932268096012017-07-20T18:22:55.621-07:002017-07-20T18:22:55.621-07:00Thank you for your post, we lost our little one at...Thank you for your post, we lost our little one at 7 weeks and my brother and his girlfriend are due to have their baby in a week or two. Just wrapping up the little clothes for her for when she's born broke my heart. My family are also arranging a holiday abroad for my nan's 70th which I was really looking forward too it would of been our first holiday with our little baby. Now I cant bare the thought of going watching my brother and his girlfriend with their little one, knowing ours should of been there but isn't. Tonight it was like someone just turned on the taps and I cried and just felt overwhelming sadness. It occurred to me that no matter what I do I will never wake up one day and just be ok with this. No baby could every replace the one I lost, though I hope so much to be a mother one day. People just say "it will be ok" but how will it ever be ok to have something you love so much die inside of you. My pregnancy test is still positive and i'm still in the process of loosing my baby, it's just one of the most difficult things I have ever been through. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04829044411021240633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1776768376583820519.post-18251923026375708802016-12-17T10:09:28.205-08:002016-12-17T10:09:28.205-08:00Thank you for this post! I have been struggling to...Thank you for this post! I have been struggling to put into words how I feel as I am grieving my first miscarriage. We lost our little girl at 14wks, (we found out it was a girl through some testing before we lost her). My SIL happens to be due the day after our little girl was due, and we even announced our pregnancies together at 11weeks. Now we are about to face Christmas together, and while I am so excited for them to have their first baby and I want so badly to be supportive and involved, I'm still grieving my baby. So how do you get through this? Seeing a 30week belly that should also be your own? All I can do is pray for God take me through it. This post helped me tremendously, I can now name my feelings and even help my husband and family to understand what I'm going through. I need them to know I love them, I'm just hurting too. Thank youDanielle Brandthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03158559408690261625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1776768376583820519.post-7646888931561690372015-01-01T07:01:10.176-08:002015-01-01T07:01:10.176-08:00A few of my close friends were pregnant when I los...A few of my close friends were pregnant when I lost Levi, and even 5 years later I often look at their kids (all boys, of course) and try to picture how Levi would look now, playing with the rest of them. But I will say that it's not as sad to think about that as it used to be...<br /><br />Praying for you, Mandi. Jen @ Into Your Willhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14187018475134844546noreply@blogger.com